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Giving Communication the BIFF
When you have to face up to difficult discussions/emails/texts with your ex while this emotional ticker tape runs in the background, you need one easy, sound strategy.
That strategy is that you…give the BIFF. Give the BIFF to your Ex / your annoying colleague / your mother / anyone you need to have a challenging exchange with. BIFF is a technique created by Bill Eddy who has researched and written a lot about high conflict in family law cases. BIFF responses are Brief, Infor

Selina Trigg
May 195 min read
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Holiday Sur-Thrival After a Separation
If the holiday season isn’t looking merry & bright for you because you’re recently separated, there's things you can do to turn that around!

Selina Trigg
Dec 11, 20245 min read
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Co-Parenting through the Holidays
The build-up to the holidays can be stressful. Sorting out the parenting arrangements for your children early can help reduce that stress.

Selina Trigg
Nov 3, 20245 min read
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Planning to Move with Your Children after Separation
Forget worrying about having enough packing boxes - relocation issues after separation can become a legal and emotional minefield!

Selina Trigg
May 13, 20246 min read
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Navigating Storms: Reaching Parenting Agreements using Family Dispute Resolution
Reaching agreement about the care arrangements for your child after separation may be possible using Family Dispute Resolution.

Jules McClain
May 6, 20243 min read
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What Does Your Parenting Agreement Say?
When I pick up a parenting plan or agreement, it tells me a lot about who the parents were when they came up with it.

Selina Trigg
Mar 18, 20245 min read
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Why You Can Ease Up About Your Parenting Agreement!
Remembering that your parenting agreement will likely need to change in the future, consider what is appropriate here and now given your chi

Selina Trigg
Mar 10, 20244 min read
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Choosing the Right Resolution Process for You
There is more than one pathway to resolution and achieving an amicable separation and future co-parenting relationship!

Selina Trigg
Feb 14, 20244 min read
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The Critical Decision in Your Separation or Divorce
When faced with a separation or other family law issue, what’s one of the most critical, most impactful decisions you will make?

Selina Trigg
Jan 17, 20244 min read
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