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When Your Parents Help You Buy a Home
Sometimes as family lawyers we must rain on people’s parade. We can’t always tell clients what they want to hear. This was one of those times.
Despite the fact the home and mortgage were in Rebecca’s sole name, she was dismayed to learn that, by law, the home was relationship property. The principal family residence is given special status in law as the “family home”.

Selina Trigg
Aug 275 min read


What Shouldn't Go In Your Contracting Out Agreement?
To avoid putting time and money into an agreement only to find it is legally invalid or overturned by a Court, here are some of the things you should get careful advice about before having them in your Agreement.

Selina Trigg
Jul 77 min read


How Can We Have an Amicable Separation?
Worried whether it's possible to separate amicably? We show you how separation and divorce with respect and without conflict is possible!

Selina Trigg
Jan 75 min read


Holiday Sur-Thrival After a Separation
If the holiday season isn’t looking merry & bright for you because you’re recently separated, there's things you can do to turn that around!

Selina Trigg
Dec 11, 20245 min read


The Value of a Valuation
When faced with a relationship property division, how do you know when to get a real estate agent’s appraisal, or a registered valuation?

Selina Trigg
Dec 3, 20243 min read


Getting Holidays-Ready in Your Co-Parenting Arrangements
The build-up to the holidays can be stressful. Sorting out the parenting arrangements for your children early can help reduce that stress.

Selina Trigg
Nov 4, 20245 min read


My Relationship was Short – will my Ex Get Half my House?
Most people know about the presumptions of “equal sharing” in relationship property law. Less people are aware of the exceptions.

Selina Trigg
Sep 25, 20244 min read


Ten Free Things You Can do to Help Resolve your Family Law Issue
Looking for a cost effective way to work through your family problem, look no further as here we have ten free things you can do to help you

Selina Trigg
Sep 11, 20243 min read


"Can She Have our Child Adopted Out?"
Steven was worried when he learned his ex-girlfriend was going to adopt out their unborn child. Can she do this?

Selina Trigg
Sep 4, 20243 min read


Dividing Up Your Kiwisaver or Superannuation on Separation
Will my ex get half my Kiwisaver or superannuation? As this blog points out, not necessarily.

Selina Trigg
Jun 3, 20243 min read


Planning to Move with Your Children after Separation
Forget worrying about having enough packing boxes - relocation issues after separation can become a legal and emotional minefield!

Selina Trigg
May 13, 20246 min read


The 9 Things You Are Most Likely to Miss in Your Property Division
Here are the 9 top items that get overlooked when an “uncoupling couple” are working through the division of their relationship property.

Selina Trigg
Apr 29, 20244 min read


Your First Appointment with a Family Lawyer? Read this First!
If you want to engage the services of a family lawyer, what can you do to make sure you get the most out of your first appointment?

Selina Trigg
Apr 28, 20243 min read


"I Want to Keep the House!!"
If you own a home, one of the biggest questions going around in your head after separation will likely be “ What happens to the house? ”....

Selina Trigg
Mar 27, 20245 min read


What does the Lawyer for my Child do?
The role of the lawyer for the child in New Zealand emphasises the importance of giving children a voice in legal proceedings that directly

Jules McClain
Mar 14, 20243 min read


It’s a Simple Agreement so Why Doesn’t It Feel Simple?
Even for a simple relationship property agreement, there are some hoops to jump through to complete your agreement.

Selina Trigg
Mar 14, 20244 min read


Why You Can Ease Up About Your Parenting Agreement!
Remembering that your parenting agreement will likely need to change in the future, consider what is appropriate here and now given your chi

Selina Trigg
Mar 11, 20244 min read


7 Things to Include in Your Parenting Agreement
In among all the ‘big ticket’ parenting matters to include in your parenting plan, here are 7 items I see parents often overlook.

Selina Trigg
Mar 8, 20245 min read
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