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When Your Parents Help You Buy a Home
Sometimes as family lawyers we must rain on people’s parade. We can’t always tell clients what they want to hear. This was one of those times.
Despite the fact the home and mortgage were in Rebecca’s sole name, she was dismayed to learn that, by law, the home was relationship property. The principal family residence is given special status in law as the “family home”.

Selina Trigg
Aug 275 min read


Why is the Date of our Separation so Important?
In some cases, the date of your separation will be very clear cut, usually signified by one person moving out of the shared family home. For the couples above, however, it is far less so. As couples face increasing challenges around housing affordability, it is becoming increasingly common for couples to choose to remain living in the family home for a period after separation. Furthermore, some separations aren't sudden events but rather slowly and organically unfold over tim

Selina Trigg
Aug 114 min read


What Shouldn't Go In Your Contracting Out Agreement?
To avoid putting time and money into an agreement only to find it is legally invalid or overturned by a Court, here are some of the things you should get careful advice about before having them in your Agreement.

Selina Trigg
Jul 77 min read


When Avoiding Legal Costs Ends Up Costing You in Your Separation
Bypassing legal advice can ultimately end up costing you more when you separate or divorce. Here’s why.

Selina Trigg
Jul 1, 20244 min read


Being All Over the Paperwork in Your Separation!
When going through a separation or divorce, being organised with the paperwork can save you money. Here’s how to be all over this!

Selina Trigg
Jun 10, 20244 min read


Dividing Up Your Kiwisaver or Superannuation on Separation
Will my ex get half my Kiwisaver or superannuation? As this blog points out, not necessarily.

Selina Trigg
Jun 3, 20243 min read


6 Ways Collaborative Divorce is Different
How is using the Collaborative process in your separation or divorce different to other resolution processes on offer?

Selina Trigg
May 27, 20246 min read


The 1 Thing You Must Do to Ensure Your Contracting Out Agreement Works
Think of a Contracting Out Agreement as a way of insuring your property from relationship property claims in the event of a separation.

Selina Trigg
May 20, 20243 min read


The 9 Things You Are Most Likely to Miss in Your Property Division
Here are the 9 top items that get overlooked when an “uncoupling couple” are working through the division of their relationship property.

Selina Trigg
Apr 29, 20244 min read


Keeping Hold of the Steering Wheel - Mediating Your Way to Resolution
Mediation can allow you to is one way to reach resolution without fanning the flames of conflict and without the lawyers' letters.

Selina Trigg
Mar 28, 20243 min read


"I Want to Keep the House!!"
If you own a home, one of the biggest questions going around in your head after separation will likely be “ What happens to the house? ”....

Selina Trigg
Mar 27, 20245 min read


Can you Rely on a Contracting Out Agreement?
After signing your Contracting Out Agreement, there are things you need to make sure you regularly do if you want it to remain valid.

Selina Trigg
Mar 27, 20243 min read


It’s a Simple Agreement so Why Doesn’t It Feel Simple?
Even for a simple relationship property agreement, there are some hoops to jump through to complete your agreement.

Selina Trigg
Mar 14, 20244 min read
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